Sex mention, discussion re: being asexual and in a relationship with an allosexual
Sometimes it’s really tough being an #asexual (#greysexual person in a relationship with an allosexual person. Not to mention that I’m very low-energy. I’ve been with my fiancé for 6 years now and love them to death, but they are far more sexual than I am. While I prefer mutual masturbation and making out, they don’t get much gratification from sexual things unless we have sex with penetration. This means that, for one or the other to enjoy sexual encounters, one of us will always have to put a special effort into it. For them, just making out and mutually masturbating or giving/receiving a hand job isn’t stimulating enough. And, for me, having penetrative sex, which aside from having them ride me, is fairly physically taxing. It’s just not a great feeling for either of us if we find ourselves in disagreement about what to do. Do any other asexuals have this issue regarding sex with their partner(s)?
Sex mention, discussion re: being asexual and in a relationship with an allosexual
I forgot to close my parentheses after ‘greysexual’. Whoops.